Question:
your blog has really inspired me how have you done it.
Asked by Anonymous
Answer:
First off, what works for me is not necessarily going to work for anybody else. Secondly, the short answer would currently be calorie counting, recording all my food, and exercising more, but nobody ever seems to like that answer. :P
So here’s the long version, which contains both things I’d recommend and things I wish I hadn’t done. :P
How I’ve “done it” has been a long journey full of a lot of experimentation. I’ve tried to lose weight before, but this is the first time I’ve lost more than 5-10 lbs without gaining it back shortly after. When I first started actively trying to lose weight back in February, “walk more” was my idea of exercise, and I gave up soda pop, potato chips, and fried foods for Lent. I have no idea how much I lost by the time Lent was over because after I got my starting weight and measurements, I didn’t weigh again until July or August. But I sure did feel better, just by making those small changes, and I didn’t really introduce those foods back into my diet as regulars like they had been before.
At a few points over the course of the next few months after that, I did the whole Special K thing. It worked for helping drop those pounds, but I really don’t think I was eating as many calories as I should have been at that time. 1,000-1,100 was typical, but then I’d have days where I’d eat 1,800-2,000 because I was starving and just couldn’t take it anymore haha. I also took energy/diet pills, and those just made me feel like my heart was bursting out of my chest constantly. Tried those green tea pills as well, and I passed out a couple of times after taking them on an empty stomach. So those are NOT something I’m advising anyone take. They do nothing at best, and can have awful side effects.
In August, I did a high-protein, low-carb, very low calorie diet, but I totally would not recommend it at all. Very low calorie diets (VLCD) are not advised, and quite frankly, I really didn’t lose much more than I could have on my own, plus I felt tired and cranky all the time! Plus, I am obnoxiously sick of fish at this point and never want to eat it again haha. I was a pescatarian (like a vegetarian, but eats fish), so when the diet called for meat, that’s all I would eat, but now if I never eat another seafood product for the next billion years, I’m down with that. So that was a total no go as well.
So back to that calorie counting and exercising! That’s the main gist of what I’ve been doing since about May, but the way I do it has been changing. I went from eating a lot of packaged, processed foods to cooking more of my own from fresh, whole ingredients. The actual amount of calories I eat has changed over the months too. I use caloriecount.about.com to figure out roughly how many calories I should be eating a day— which changes as my weight goes down. The calories that I needed to lose at 230lbs are much higher than what I need to lose at 159lbs, so I adjust my intake every 10-15lbs or so.
A recent addition to the calorie counting has been monitoring my sodium intake and my carb/protein/fat ratio. I stopped using shaker salt completely a few months ago, but loads of foods still contain it, or have it added. It’s really helped to keep down any water weight, so it’s been a good thing for me. Also, I’m not looking to go low-carb, low-fat, or high-protein, I’m mostly just making sure I’m within normal ranges for all of those macronutrients. My exact ratios change from day to day, but as long as I’m in the green, I’m good.
Two other things that are helpful are:
1. Planning out what I eat before I eat it. Sometimes I’ll get the whole day planned out the night before, or the morning of. That way when I’m hungry, I’m not digging through the cupboards, trying to figure out the counts of things. I already know what I’m going to make.
2. Recording my hunger level before and after a meal. This really makes me think about whether I’m hungry or not when I eat, and helps me to not overeat.
As for exercise, I still do a shitload of walking. I haven’t been doing as much during the week since school’s started, but I try to go 4-6 miles a day on weekends and days off. I’m going to do a half-marathon in January, so I’m gearing up to train for that. I occasionally do workout tapes from Jillian Michaels or Leslie Sansone as well, and I weight train a couple times a week.
So yeah, that’s a general idea of what I have done and what I’m currently doing. If you have any other, specific questions, you’re certainly free to ask. :)
Question:
so if you wanna burn yourself remember that I LOVE YOU
and if you wanna cut yourself remember that I LOVE YOU
and if you wanna kill yourself remember that I LOVE YOU
call me up before your dead, we can make some plans instead
send me an IM, i'll be your friend
Asked by nina-moon
Answer:
WE WON’T STOP UNTIL SOMEBODY CALLS THE COPS
AND EVEN THEN WE’LL START AGAIN AND JUST PRETEND THAT
NOTHING EVER HAPPENED
Nina Moon you are what happiness is all about fosho.
Question:
I LOVE YOU MORE THAN ANY OF THESE BITCHES EVER WILL.
Asked by nina-moon
Answer:
That is so not a question, Nina Moon, that is a true fact.
But while we’re here, did you all (as in all of you excepting Nina) know that Nina runs two absolutely fabulous blogs? Lipstick Feminists and All Women are Real Women are definite must reads. So go read them. Right now.
Lipstick Feminists “is a feminist blog focusing around current events, pop culture, queer and race issues, and sex. Mostly sex. There are a few NSFW things.”
All Women are Real Women “is a blog for women of all shapes, sizes, colors, styles, and backgrounds. We want to celebrate all women as being real and beautiful ladies. Genderqueer individuals are celebrated- we are hoping/trying/are creating a safe space.”
Anyway, Nina, I love your face. Stay classy.
Question:
How do you define happiness?
Asked by Anonymous
Answer:
For me, happiness is partially about being content— content with yourself, content with your life, content with your surroundings, etc.— but that’s not all it is, because you can be content without really being happy. I can be okay with or content with how things are, but in a more neutral, neither happy nor sad way.
What makes the contentment into happiness is the element of joy. Feeling glad, taking pleasure in life, in yourself, valuing and appreciating what you have— that’s joy. I’m not just okay with the way things are, I love the way things are, I appreciate them and take pleasure from them.
So, short answer: For me, contentment + joy = happiness.
